Friday, 16 February 2018

What I learned from starting a church-based international student ministry...





“I became a member of a church that exposed me to the Great Commission, in which Jesus commanded his followers to become his witnesses in Jerusalem (locally), Judea/Samaria (regionally and nationally) and to the ends of the earth (globally). I understood from this that any Bible-based church should engage in all three zones at the same time.  This pattern became my experience because the ‘ends of the earth’ had come to live in my Jerusalem.  I became a cross cultural witness for Christ without leaving my postcode.”  
– Steve Bell (Grace for Muslims: A journey from fear to faith)

When I read these words they resonated with something deep in my heart. A few years after moving to Bournemouth I began attending Gateway Church in Poole. Through the bible teaching it became evident this was a mission-minded church, and often after the sermons I went away with my heart stirred to share the Good News with those who had never heard. A heart for ‘the nations’ had been developing in me from a young age as my parents worked for a mission organisation and I studied cross-cultural evangelism in bible college. As I settled into the community I soon realised there were many students coming from around the world to study in Bournemouth and Poole. I remember thinking what a great opportunity this was and that our church should be reaching them.  

As I sat sipping tea with a friend on a cold January afternoon I shared my heart. Miss Joyce Harding was a retired missionary to India who I came to know through the care agency I was working for. She prayed with me and told me to look up Friends International. In the summer of 2009 I volunteered to be on the local team for the Bournemouth International Outreach. As I welcomed students from Spain, China, Switzerland, Saudi Arabia and Turkey, and found myself in conversations with them about Jesus, a flame reignited in my soul. From there I became a volunteer for the Hub café, and then the Programme Coordinator for Friends International Dorset in 2010.

During my time with Friends International I have served on the Hub Café leadership team and supported café leaders through the SMILE Network (Student Meetings International Local Events).  While helping to equip local churches, I still longed for my own church to be reaching international students.  Our church is not located in the town centre where most student activity happens, but I knew there were many language students residing with host families in our area. I spoke to the elders, who were very supportive and encouraging of any way we could be reaching the nations in our town. I began meeting with a friend who also had a heart for the nations.  We shared a vision to see an English conversation café in the Parkstone area where people could come to improve their English, meet friends and hear about Jesus. We began praying together, believing God had planted this seed in our hearts. 

Through the years I encouraged Gateway members to join the local BIO team and host international students in their homes for meals. I witnessed God at work as our church became more and more international. Students from Austria, Bulgaria, China, Guyana, India and Romania began attending.  

I kept exploring ways we might be able to open an English conversation café. We even looked at boarded-up shops on Ashley Road in Parkstone.  But, nothing seemed to open up to us. It seemed God was saying it wasn’t time, “Be still and know that I am God”. Then during the late summer of 2015 I learned that Gateway was looking into purchasing the Methodist building at 502 Ashley Road in Parkstone. Could this be the open door? A few weeks after the purchase one of our church elders contacted me and asked me if I would like to start an English Conversation Café at 502 and invited me to come into the church office to talk it through.  



On the 10the of June, 2016 we opened the doors of Parkstone International Community.  God provided us with an amazing team of people with various gifts and cross-cultural experience. Some were language teachers, had hosted international students in their home, or served abroad in Christian ministry or on the BIO local team. In the weeks prior to the launch we had planning meetings, handed out invitations, spread the word on social media and most importantly prayed. From the very first night God blessed us with a good number of people from around the world.



As time went on the numbers of those in attendance fluctuated as language students came and then returned to their home country.  We tweaked the programme as we became more aware of the needs of the students who were coming to us. We included worksheets to help with practising English conversation, games, activities along with food and cultural events. We looked for creative ways to talk about Jesus by using every day English idioms based in the Bible. 


Looking now over our guest book, I notice we have students coming to us from countries where it can be costly to explore who Jesus is.  Yet, during their time with us they have that opportunity.  And this is where I see our part in global mission. We seek to serve our international guests in a very practical way by helping them improve their English. But, ultimately our aim is to become their friend and help them on their journey to knowing who Jesus is. In just over a year and a half, friendships have deepened; some have asked questions about the Christian faith and requested a Bible in their own language. We are planning to offer an international Bible study after Easter.

What I have learned from this journey is that if God plants a seed in your heart you can trust Him to grow it. As with any seed, it will require a lot of prayer and patience.  How you communicate with your church leaders is extremely important. Like me you may feel passionate about international student ministry, but keep the big picture in mind. Consider the diversity of people your church is reaching and the range of ministries your elders oversee. Learn humility. Be willing to serve. Seek out those in your congregation who have a similar heart for the nations and form a team with your elders’ blessing.  Make use of the many resources and support available to you through Friends International.  No matter how experienced you are, be willing to learn new ways of reaching international students as the needs of the students and their cultures continually change.  Be flexible and keep looking to God for direction.